Grace, Poise and Presence
Helping girls develop manners, respect, poise, communication, and social confidence.
Colossians 4:6 — "Let your conversation be always full of grace."
About This Module
Over 16 weeks, girls learn social graces, proper communication, respect for others, and how to carry themselves with confidence and poise in every setting — from the dinner table to the digital world. Grace, Poise and Presence isn't about being stiff or old-fashioned; it's about reflecting inner character through outward actions, so every gem can shine wherever she goes.
Program Journey
Four phases. Sixteen lessons. One graceful goal: character expressed through everyday action.
First Impressions
Weeks 1–4
How we show up matters — greetings, respect, presentation, and presence.
- 1Greetings & Introductions
- 2Respect for Elders & Authority
- 3Personal Presentation & Appearance
- 4Public Behavior & Spatial Awareness
Table & Social Grace
Weeks 5–8
Learning the art of the table — and the heart of hospitality and gratitude.
- 1Table Manners & Dining Etiquette
- 2Tea Party & Formal Dining Practice
- 3Hosting & Hospitality
- 4Gratitude & Thank-You Notes
Communication & Confidence
Weeks 9–12
Speaking with grace — in person, online, and in every important moment.
- 1Communication with Grace
- 2Digital Etiquette & Social Media Wisdom
- 3Interview & Speaking Etiquette
- 4Confidence Without Arrogance
Character in Action
Weeks 13–16
Putting etiquette to work — handling people, places, and pressure with class.
- 1Conflict with Class
- 2Cultural Courtesy & Global Awareness
- 3Church & Event Etiquette
- 4Grace & Poise Celebration Experience
Who This Module Is For
Grace, Poise and Presence is age-adapted for all five GEM levels — every girl, every age, growing in grace.
Rubies
Ages 3–5
Learning "please," "thank you," and kind words through songs, role-play, and puppet shows.
Diamonds
Ages 6–8
Practicing introductions, table manners, and writing thank-you cards through fun activities.
Emeralds
Ages 9–11
Interactive etiquette challenges, dining practice, and communication role-plays.
Topaz
Ages 12–14
Digital etiquette deep-dives, mock interviews, and navigating social situations with grace.
Sapphires
Ages 15–17
Leadership-level etiquette — professional communication, hosting, public speaking, and real-world confidence.
What Girls Will Learn
- ✓Table manners and dining etiquette
- ✓Proper introductions and greetings
- ✓Digital etiquette and social media wisdom
- ✓Respect for elders and authority
- ✓Graceful communication in all settings
- ✓How to handle conflict with class
- ✓Hosting and hospitality skills
Activities & Experiences
- ★Formal tea party with etiquette practice
- ★Table setting and dining role-play
- ★Social media do's and don'ts workshop
- ★Mock interview and introduction practice
- ★Etiquette quiz games and challenges
- ★Thank-you note writing station
- ★Cultural courtesy exploration
Resources & Downloads
Helpful previews and overviews to give parents and mentors a window into the Grace, Poise and Presence experience.
Parent Overview
Download a one-page overview of this module to share with family.
Sample Lesson Preview
See what a typical Grace, Poise and Presence session looks like.
Student Workbook Preview
Preview pages from the Grace, Poise and Presence student workbook.
Bringing It Home
Grace, Poise and Presence is caught as much as it's taught. Here are simple, meaningful ways to keep practicing grace at home.
- 1Practice polite greetings and introductions together
- 2Model table manners at family meals
- 3Discuss respectful digital communication and screen time habits
- 4Role-play how to handle awkward social situations with grace
- 5Write thank-you notes together after gifts or kind gestures
Ready to Begin Her Journey?
Step into Module 2 — and let every gem grow in grace, manners, and confidence that reflects who she really is.